Oral Sex Tips for Men

Women absolutely love to receive oral sex. However if there is one complaint about men as lovers in general it is that they are lousy at it!This is hardly surprising as a woman' biology - not to mention her mind - seems a lot more complicated. But it needn't be. Here are a few ideas that will help you as you explore going down on women:

 Approach from a distance. Don't just rush in and start licking her. Remember that a woman's whole boy is a sex organ and she needs to be warmed up properly first. Use your mouth, lips and tongue to explore her whole body. Some particularly sensitive areas in most women are the neck, ears, upper back, forearms, nipples, thighs, knees and feet. Use your hands as well as your mouth to explore these areas, paying particular attention to those from where you get the greatest response.


 Explore the surrounding area first. By 'surrounding area' I mean the whole region from the upper thighs to the stomach. The inner thighs are particularly sensitive. Slowly run your tongue up one thigh and across and down the other. Only very lightly touch her pubic area on the way past; this will really make her shiver with delight. Use your fingers as well as your mouth. I have mentioned this above but once you start to explore her genital area more fully, also use your hands. You can use your fingers to spread apart her vaginal lips, as your tongue explores up and down each side. Be gentle in all your movements.


When you are licking her firmly also use your hands to stroke her legs and stomach and even her breasts. This can add to the pleasure considerably. Use you tongue in a circular motion. Don't just move your tongue up and down. Move it in a circular motion and even side to side. Vary the pressure, the angle and the speed of your strokes. Basically, the more you can tease as well as stimulate the more the woman will enjoy it. Give firm clitoral stimulation when she is ready for it.


There will come a point when the woman will be ready or you to stimulate her clitoris directly. But wait until she is literally begging you for it. Timing is everything here. You don't want to be too slow or she will go off the boil; go too fast and it will not be pleasurable (it could even be painful). Many men think the clitoris is all there is when it comes to performing oral sex on a woman, but it is really just the icing on the cake. Stimulate the G spot.


When you are licking her clitoris you can add to the pleasure by inserting a finger inside her and stimulating her G spot. Do this by stroking with your index finger in a motion as you would if beckoning someone. You can also press firmly (not too hard). Be alert to her feedback. This is the most important tip of all. Try lots of variation and see what she responds to the most.


Then focus on that for a while until you feel her becoming less responsive to that. Then you can move on to something different. To give a woman great oral sex requires skills of sensitivity and imagination. Apply some of the above and you will create a very satisfied woman who will, in turn, want to pleasure you.